Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Spring Kiddin'

Proud Papa
Come over and play at the farm one day and see the new babes on the farm this spring!  We'll be here Sat, April 21st most of the day for you to visit some of our babies, collect some eggs and visit other critters around here.   We are also hoping to buy a few goats for people who need a goat for more than a pet.   Jeb is also collecting donations at farm visits this spring to send to a Haitian Goat Project: 

http://fohomissions.org/2.html
The goat project helps Haitians by teaching them to use their natural environment to raise goats, giving them much-needed protein. The Goat Project is designed to help Haitians develop skills to raise livestock themselves as well as instill in them the need to help each other and give back to their community. 
The process begins when someone sends $45 to purchase a female goat which is given to a family which has been trained in caring for a goat (vaccinating for parasites, trimming hooves and proper feeding). The female is bred and the first kid is kept by the family. The second kid born is given back to the community and goes to another family. the third kid is kept and the fourth is given back. The cycle continues. Under this plan, new families receive goats and the original family is able to build its herd.  Male goats are usually sold and the money is used to purchase new female goats.
Marv travels throughout  Haiti several times per year to vaccinate and trim the hooves of the project goats as well as teach the families how to repeat the process.
Traveling is most difficult in the Southern regions because the only access is through long and winding rivers. There is a very short period in late winter which is dry enough to travel.  One must ford the rivers 27 times! Often times there are many other animals not associated with our project that show up for the vaccinations.  Since our ultimate goal is to help as many Haitians as possible find Jesus as well as the means to a better life, Marv attempts to vaccinate as many of these non-program animals as possible.
There are over 55 churches that participate in our goat project.
Marv's home church in Spring Arbor, MI, has celebrated Jesus' birthday the past several years by publishing a 'wish list' of gifts that Jesus would probably choose.  A goat for a Haitian family was on the list and was a favorite gift for families with children! 
Last year their Vacation Bible School has a contest between boys and girls to raise the most money for a designated mission project.  The children bring pop cans and loose change. Several years ago, FOHO's Goat Project was chosen as the recipient.  Every time $45 was raised, another paper goat was hung on the wall amidst lost of cheering.             It was especially fun to deliver all those goats!


Being a middle child is tough.

Redneck Girl--Jeb's pick

Little Dan, Little Ann and Redneck Girl.


Mable

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Jeb's family awards

Jeb's Awards

Jeb’s Family Awards!  (He requested that I type his misspelled words correctly. If there was any confusion on his paper I asked him to clarify, so this is totally HIS doing!). One fun thing about having a kid this age is that you never know what he'll come up with!

Best cook—Ashley
Best Nursing—Nana
Best Sporty-Ben
Best Worker-Daddy
Best Worker Also-Papa D
Best Crafting-Jenny
Best Guns-Jess
Best biscuits-Bob0
Most Generous-Nana Mac
Good Uncle Award-Jacob
Good Mom Award-Abby
Most Country-Caleb
Best Princes-Carson
Super Mario Queen-Kristen
Best Aunt-Great Aunt Jeanie
Best Husband-Dave
Most Smart-Noah
Best pincher-Molly
Best Dentist-Paul
Best USC Fan-Libby
Calmest award-Sarah
Rough award-Kyler
Most Demanding-Meggie (originally spelled “amaning”)
Most Sharer-er—Samuel
Best Artist-Bradley


Big brother 

Cay and I built this hotel with garden and pool atop. 
Daddy's helpers


Jeb's Farm house with pool, garden, garage and many more features! Of course, Bailey is always right with the kids!

Winter...the blogging blues

I have been so buys with #3 that I have not been blogging for publishing.  I do have some drafts written as I have been journaling  through our adoption journey each month and all the fun things I am learning to love about our new little one.  It is also hard to find pictures that she is not in as I just don't have peace about putting her mug on the world wide web quite yet!  Still, the boys have been busy playing around the farm and in their new sandbox, so I thought I would add some shots of them growing up and some with Little Miss (I can't resist since she feels SO MUCH a part of our family!)!

Fishing with Daddy

Put on his on worm this year1  

Getting ready for the rodeo!

Redneck Tennis

"Valentino" was our first calf of the season born 2/14/12.   

My hubby loved this sight.


J says I should be ashamed to allow my kids to make this much mess. I am not proud, but it was worth documenting how trashed this place was.  

He has always slept in strange places.

Little Miss Farm Finger Painting.



This guys ALWAYS has on his hats...either coonskin or cowboy--everyday!

Riding on his own.

Little teacher Jebbers with his typical students that are not paying a bit of attention to his reading.  


When we asked Cay if he'd want another little sister (no worries--no time soon), he replied, "If she is just like __________ (Skeeter girl, yes we are calling her Skeeter some). " Melted my heart! And Jeb replied, "well, she won't be...no two people are the same." Oh the logic.  Why Skeeter?  She is such a tom-\boy!  More about her in many other blogs I have been writing, but am not ready to publish.  We are blessed and she is so loved.

Friday, February 10, 2012

50 Things that Matter

Part of the reason I keep this blog...besides that I love to write and don't have time to keep a real journal anymore ...is so that my kids can always have a record of some of my thoughts!
I found a little book at a store called 50 Things that Matter and it got me thinking...

50 Things that Matter to me in the day-day life I live:

1.  Jesus' Resurrection.  Christmas is fine and all, but without the living part...well, Christianity could just be another religion.
2.  My husband's unconditional love
3. The fun my family has together
4.  My children laughing
He watched this for weeks and finally got to ride!
5.  Being able to play outside mid-morning on warm days with my kids and  not a being stuck in a classroom with kids that aren't mine
6.  summer nights out late playing in the yard
7. traveling anywhere you can, as much as you can
8.  letting the kids run wild
9.  camping out
10.  hiking to waterfalls
11.  throwing rocks (I have learned to really enjoy this pastime with the boys).
12.  cool nights on the porch swing
13.  walking with J on the driveway even if is short bursts
14.  laughing with girlfriends
15.  having friends who don't judge me when I mess up
16.  loving children that aren't mine
17.  petting animals of any sort
18.  getting lots of good exercise
19. my mom not giving us sugary cereals, soft drinks, cheese puffs, and spaghetti o's growing up!--so thankful!
20.  compassion
first tennis lesson!
21.  having a dad who played sports with me
22.  tennis
23.  encouraging people when I can
24. giving compliments
25.  Popsicles
26.  dancing for fun and silliness
27.  learning new things
28.  good books
29.  Bible verses that change my life, convict me and inspire me.
30.  missionaries
31.  feeling cool river water run through my toes
32. smelling mtn laurel
33.  jumping waves in the ocean
34.  sun therapy after a mid-mo winter
35.  snuggling up with the kids in bed with a book
36.  kissing Cay's cheeks
37. playing sports with Jeb
38.  singing with Molly and her sweet, sweet voice.
39.  a mother in law who will help me keep the babies and really acts like she always enjoys it!
40.  late night chats in the dark with J about all kinds of things important and silly
41.  watching my children learn
42.  enjoying and respecting college students, even though I don't get paid much to teach them
43.  walking to the waterfall
44.  getting muddy in the creek
45.  hearing the river and digging in the sand on the shore
46.  reorganizing things and throwing out junk (I do get in trouble for getting rid of stuff sometimes though)
47.  a husband who is happy to keep the kids for shopping, girls night, etc.
48.  good pictures that make you laugh and weep, too
49.  telling people what you think (yes, I do go too far sometimes  but at least folks know where I stand)
50.  a church that focuses on all the right things (not perfect, but focused)
so I could not stop at 50 and I just left this blog open for days as I thought of them...
51. frappucino
52.  getaway adventures with J
53. going out of your way to invite new people to things and plug them in to friends!
54. try new things...don't be so close-minded towards other experiences/food...or too afraid!
55. good college friends who make you a better person even though they were only with you for a season
56.  making smores
57.  swimming all the time in the summer
58.  saying thank you often and much for big and small things
59.  going to church and loving it ...not just when it is convenient or special
60.  going for a walk
61.  seeing a little baby smile
62.  having a sister who is a friend
63.  my flowers blooming each spring  esp. the ones from Granny's
64.   snow days when school is cancelled
65.  a good find at a thrift store
66.  my mom cooking good meals and having us all sit down together usually

Mildred almost froze in our freezer, sneaks in my car, and has been rescued off the roof.  If he did not love this cat so much, she would be GONE.

Monday, January 2, 2012

Happy New Year family!

Wow, it has been so long since I have written! Still, I have good excuse.  After two years of waiting, we have a new child to love here...and then there is Christmas!  I can't blog about Little Miss yet since nothing is final, but the transition has been semi-easy (considering) and it seems like she's been here much longer than a month!  I can't wait to share pics of her first month in our family, but now is not the time!  

digger from Santa

BIG soccer goals Daddy built-game on!



Caleb really did belt it out at his Christmas program.

the boy did not miss a syllable and he really did have some volume!

his fans

This boy is nothing but a joy!

but all boy!

What a handsome man on the inside and out!  

I have to share though, that the timing of all this is always purely God's.  On a Monday in the fall, I had the first melt-down over our adoption journey that I have really had in almost 2 years. I questioned God's call on my life to do this, I questioned not birthing another child, I questioned how old I was getting and how God seemed to be not moving here, I questioned God about what else I could DO, I told him I was mad, had fasted/prayed/served, had others pray, and just could not figure out what I was doing wrong that he could not use me/our family to love a child?? I just did NOT get it.  On Tuesday, I had the first ever cry with our small group over WHY God had not answered OUR prayers.  Little did I know, that he already was (For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Eph 2:10).  On Wednesday, THAT call came that we'd been "chosen."  She said they'd been looking at our file since Monday...well, I had no idea that my hissy fit was pointless, but I guess that God knew it was coming and he better get movin' on me before I gave up on Him.  Within 2 weeks, we heard about our one-day child and within another 2 weeks she was in our arms and our house was turned upside down--in a good way!  Then, on the exact date of our acceptance letter two years ago we signed a pre-adoptive agreement (and they set that date).  WOW!

Since you've been here "sister":
We've remembered how fun tub baths are and how fun it is to run around naked after them (well, at least the boys do anyway), how fun jumping on beds can be, how fun acting crazy on the trampoline is, how fun it is to scare people, and how fun it can be to snack 24/7.  You are such a sassy little tom-boy--just perfect for us!